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The start of something new.

January 1st, 2012-My fianc√© Dave baptized me at Two Rivers Church. It was a powerful moment and very emotional. I have been drawing closer and closer to God ever since I met Dave. His love and fear of God was something that I admired and that I wanted in my own life. Now, after a little more than a year and a half I have finally been baptized. And to top it all off, Dave, the man who has taught me and guided me in this process, was the one to dunk me! WOW! God is good ūüôā

Baptism is a symbol of my faith in Christ and it is displayed publicly for everyone to witness. It is a symbol that the old is gone and I am NEW in Christ. It is an amazing way to start this new year.

For Dave and I this baptism represented something even more. We strive to make our relationship centered around Christ. Having Dave baptize me was a way to publicly display that our relationship is rooted in Christ. We want our relationship to be about something more than our feelings. Something more than just us. We want our marriage to showcase the gospel to those around us.

Praying

Our main goal for our relationship and marriage is to live our lives in a way that when people look at us as a couple- they see Christ. They see God’s love, forgiveness, grace, peace, freshness, honesty, patience, goodness, and gentleness.

Here is a VIDEO of Dave baptizing me :). 

-Kari

P.S. 5 months till were married! 

In case you missed some of our posts last year Рcheck out this post which introduces our blog, and this funny video, and this entry.

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Dave can’t give me everything I need.

Yes- as amazing and awesome Dave is, he can not give me EVERYTHING.
He will not always satisfy, he will not always meet my expectations, he will let me down sometimes, and he will make mistakes. The same is true for me- I am not perfect and I WILL NEVER be perfect.
If Dave looked to me for his COMPLETE happiness, he would be miserable! Maybe this is why almost 50% of marriages end in divorce… People are looking to their spouse for something that they physically CAN NOT give them. This leads to all sorts of things we see in marriages today- anger, let downs, unsatisfied couples, bitterness, resentment, and depression.
ENTER- JESUS.
Jesus satisfies my EVERY need. Jesus fills my heart and soul. I will never be let down by Jesus, because He is constant, never changing. Jesus loves me so much that he sacrificed His own LIFE to show his love for me. Everything in life is for His glory.
WOW. When I think about THAT kind of love- I am blown away. If Jesus satisfies everything I need, I don’t need to be PERFECT for Dave & Dave does not need to be perfect for me. JESUS lived the perfect life and we will not ever be able to.
And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19.
When we are filled up with this kind of LOVE we will be more free to love one another. We won’t be looking to each other for our day to day needs, but we will be POINTING each other to Jesus. Now, that’s real love.
He planted marriage among humans as yet another signpost pointing to his own eternal, spiritual existence. Gary Thomas, Sacred Marriage.
-Kari
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Find: YOUR loving way 2 LOVE.

This is what marriage COULD lead to.

Any relationship is difficult with its opinions, viewpoints, and necessities.My prayer is that Kari and I can hold a relationship based on continual love- divorce is not an option.
The first love poem reads as follows,
“‘At last!’ Adam exclaimed. “She is part of my own flesh and bone! She will be called ‘woman,’ because she was taken out of man.'” (Genesis 2:23)
Adam & Eve were united as one. BUT, as soon as trouble came (the fall in Genesis 3) the egg started to CRACK and Adam blamed Eve for her mistake. As soon as harsh words and blame come into the relationship, turmoil rises. Harsh words, blame, and related actions is pride.
MORE PRIDE= LESS LOVE we need LESS PRIDE to produce MORE LOVE
Kari and I try to better ourselves every day by lessening pride and showing greater love.
This is what marriage SHOULD lead to.

Sharing everything in life. Laughing through every moment. Lifting each other to God. And loving God every second.¬†Here’s an¬†IDEAL¬†model¬†of love:
1 John 3:16, “We know what real love is because Christ gave up his life for us. And so ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† ¬† we also ought to give up our lives‚Ķ”
Did Jesus say, “NO, NO, NO, I am not going to die on that piece of wood” ? Of course not.
So we, OUGHT to love each other and give up our lives, continually.
What does that look like in relationships?
Is it going to buy a diet coke when she REALLY wants one?
Is it throwing away your pride when you KNOW you are right?
Is it pulling out a book when you know she is running LATE?
Find your loving way to love & do it always.
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much love.   Check out our WELCOME VIDEO too!

-DAVE

Fun Wedding painting things.

BEFORE

All the things needed to paint!

Laying the foundation!

DURING!

During (2)

DONE!